Rina is a high school student who believes that friends are not necessary and that they can only be used in times of need. Thus, she is unable to maintain a decent relationship with her friends and classmates. She parties frequently in a club where she is nicknamed the Queen and has no respect for her parents. After collapsing at the club, Rina eventually discovers that she has cancer and becomes hospitalised. In the hospital, she is visited by one of her classmates named Maki. Although Maki tells Rina that they were friends in primary school, Rina does not remember her, so Maki takes the opportunity to re-connect with her. A young girl Kanae who is also hospitalised tries to become friends with Rina. During her hospitalisation, Rina begins to lose hope when she is told that she will have to remove one of her breasts and she decides to jump off the hospital rooftop as she feels that she cannot live any longer. However, she is stopped by Maki, who slices herself in the breast with a knife and declares that she will share the same pain as Rina and that she does not want to lose her friend. Rina shows some hope again when she realizes that she can find friendship in Maki. But Maki herself is not a well person and the roles are reversed when the severity of her illness is revealed.
This tearjerker highlights what it means to have true friends, Rina is an individual who only cares for her own selfish needs and fails to see what her actions is doing to the people around her – it is only when she falls ill that she finds what real friendship is all about and she discovers her own true self. Rina is given many offers of genuine friendships throughout the movie but she quickly rejects them all which might suggest that she doesn’t have the willingness to accept emotional growth but of course that does change eventually. The so-called friends that latch onto Rina are only interested in the glory that hanging out with her will bring to them. Take a scene in which Rina’s potential boyfriend – a club DJ called Yousuke who tells her that no matters what happens with her illness he will always love her even if she lost her limbs. However, his true nature is revealed when Rina strips off to reveal the big scar running across her chest after her masectomy. He can only look on in shock and promptly leaves Rina behind all alone which devastates her. There are several scenes showing the mental frustration and anguish that Rina is going through such as when her hair falls out in the hospital and a humiliating experience for her in the club when the wig she’s wearing is taken from her head which reveals 90% of her hair has gone.
Keiko Kitagawa gives us a very good performance as the bitchy and emotionally detached Rina. She’s a person you’ll instantly dislike because of her attitude but you’ll grow to be sympathetic to her plight and how much she has changed by the time the end credits come round. Kitagawa goes through all the emotions of a person associated with having cancer – denial, she doesn’t want to live anymore to finally accepting her condition to fight on to another day. Yuika Motokariya is also fantastic as Rina’s helpful and caring classmate Maki who hides a terrible debilitating illness of her own from her friend.
Dear Friends is a great movie which is well directed by Kazuyuki Morosawa about friendship and how one can change their life for the better. Whilst the storyline might be predictable, it doesn’t hinder it from being a touching movie which will bring tears to many viewers eyes. Recommended.
Sadako’s Rating: 4 stars out of 5